Do not presume upon the love of God. "...and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him." (Jo 3:36b) "You have wearied the Lord with your words; how so?.. you say; by saying..God loves you just the way you are and has a wonderful plan for your life." (my paraphrase of Malachi 2:17) Watch this 9 minute video. It may change the way you think about things.